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Is she being too flirty with my hubby?

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Question - (4 August 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I found an e-mail from my husband's receptionist

saying 'Could you sign these reports or you won't

get any chocolate cake'. I just found this to be

very flirty. Would you agree or do you think I'm

being paranoid?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2008):

I'll answer this question if you send ME some chocolate cake!

She's a receptionist, it's her job to order the bosses about and get them to do things even though she does not have the rank to issue orders.

She has to use cake and yes possibly even flirting to get people like your husbands to sign those god damn reports so she can get home on time for once to her husband and 15 kids.

It means nothing more than cake.

Why don't you flirt with him and tell him how jealous you are and make him buy you a cake to make up for it.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2008):

lexilou agony auntNot flirty, cheeky and its great if she gets on well with your husband. The work place should have a bit of fun in it sometimes and its obviously an 'in' office joke. Dont worry about unless she starts sending more offering anything else!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

Yes, definitely paranoid.

Now, if she suggested that he might be in line for some muffin if he signed the reports, THAT would ring a few alarm bells!

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A female reader, Angeleyes10 United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2008):

I wudnt worry at all about this... at work we all very flippant and familiar with each other due to the amount of time we all spend there - this is just one of those situations.. its not flirty at all - im more curious as to y u think it wud be.. maybe he done sumthing in past and u read 2 much into innocent remarks or maybe the receptionist has done sumthing in past to others and u dont trust her with ur hubby..

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A female reader, suzy1221 Brazil +, writes (4 August 2008):

I don't think you are being paranoid. I'm sure by now you know your man a little more than you did in the past. We ,women, are very perceptive. We can pick up on things quickly.Continue to pay attention in the way he talks to her or about her and you will find out what really is going on. Good luck!

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A female reader, minniemouse United States +, writes (4 August 2008):

yeah you are just being paranoid. for me nothing is wrong about that not unless she will email again and offer something again.

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