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writes:I've recently moved to a small village in the middle of nowhere and I really really like the barmaid who works in the local. After she finishes her shift she will sit with me and some of the others and have a laugh and get drunk together.I want to tell her how I feel, but i'm worried I will end up pushing her away and end up without a drinking buddy.Finding young single people to have a drink and a laugh with in this village is fairly hard as most people who go to this pub are middle aged or older, so the last thing I want to do is loose her as a friend. I've been thinking about her constantly for the last 2 weeks, but i'm really worried by making a move incase I loose a good friend in a village of the elderly. I know the simple answer would be to grow some balls and just tell her, but at the moment I would rather keep her as a friend than risk not speaking to her at all, but i'm finding it hard to think of anything else apart from her. Anyone know how to make the brain stop fancying someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): Hey i like the barmaid in my local in a small village called wisborough green, shes blonde but i dont know her name, so i have the same problem!!
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reader, lexilou +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Why not just suggest going out together for a drink alone when she has a night off. You dont have to make it sound like a play for her and if she agrees you will soon get to know each other better and find out if she feels the same way. If she says no to going out alone, just forget about and continue as you are x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): It's probably a case of 'Join the Queue'!
Every male drinker in a pub fancies the barmaid. There's one in my local who's so tasty I could eat her. Trouble is, she's married, and I'm taken. All I need to do is remind myself that she's younger than my daughter which puts things in perspective.
However, if this one you're after is single and so are you, there's no harm in telling her you think she's a cracker. But do it when you first walk in ie. sober!
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