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writes:I Decided to tell a girl I'm in love with the way i feel about her. We dated for about 6 months and then broke up. But i still love her. I decided to let her know.And I'm thinking about singing her a song. I've never sung in front of anyone before but i would do it for her.I just got a ukulele and want to sing "I'm yours" to her. I don't want her to ever forget me, and i want to leave that last impression before i move to another state. What do you think. Is serenading her a good idea if i might never see her again?
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reader, freeme +, writes (13 June 2011):
 Don't do it, dude.
Instead tell her you wrote the song, and its really good. Tell her you wrote it because you still love her. Tell her if a year or two down the road, she still wants to hear it, she should look you up. Let a year or two go by, be coy. Let her sit on the idea that someone wrote a song for her for a year or two. The suspense will build.
You save face in case she is totally not into it. And meanwhile her curiosity level goes up. Hopefully enough to find you, right?
It's just an idea. Follow your heart.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 are you a good singer? sing the song to other people whose honest opinion you can trust. it depends on the sort of person she is too, some people might find it embarrassing to be sang to
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (12 June 2011):
 to be honest with you, serenading is very romantic but are you willing to become the laughing stock of your town or school if she turns you down? i know that sounds harsh but ive been there sending the guys i like love notes in class and trying every trick but seriously if you want to leave a lasting impression on her i would eaither tell her to her face (pretty much the same as singing without too much embarrassment if she turns you down) or write her a note with your feelings and contact details i.e facebook name not your number incase someone else gets hold of it. personaly being female myself, and haveing an ex in this situation i found it much more romantic and heart felt when he just took me to one side and told me how he felt to my face whilst looking me in the eyes and we have been together ever since. im not saying thats the outcome but that most girls would appriceate being told to there face.hope this helps hun xx
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