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writes:For once, a quick one by me.Is no strings attached sex, with an ex girlfriend (from long long ago) a good or a bad idea?I mean, there is a history that is all behind us now, and she is my ex for a reason, but it's 5 years on, and we're different people.How harmful would you think a night of "fun" would be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): i think that it might be "fun" but it depends how you both view sex? Some people think that it can be sometimes just for a good time ect but some view it very seriously. If she is up for it, and you are too and your careful then go for it. Just remember sex can spark feelings...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Just make triple-goddamn sure you use birth control.
Your situation is often the first half of a "but now she's pregnant!" question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): hey i see it as if shes an ex for a reason then y would u want to keep the sex going?there was obviously bad feelings between u which is y u broke up..... ok maybe your not taking things further and maybe she dont feel for you nemore but thats now il tell ya it wont be long before shes declaring her love for you once again!well as your a grown man you are older and wiser enough to know what you want so good luck i hope u do settle down with a girl you wanna be with not jus have sex with xxxxx
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reader, musicandlove247  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Well it depends on the girl. If i was emotionally attached to guy still after 5 years and we slept together it would give me hope that he wanted to get back together. So first talk to her and see if you can tell if she still has feelings for you or if shes just wanting a night "of fun" too. If she still has feelings for you then don't it because shes just gonna get hurt.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Good question, and my only possible suggestion is just a personal opinion. Such issues as these are entirely individual decisions, but if it was my option, I would likely jump all over the opportunity if it would be exciting and pleasurable. You only live one time, don't ya know.
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reader, longandsmooth87  +, writes (16 July 2008):
dont get carried away with the night, let her know exactly wat it is. a night hook up. nothing more nothing less, she'll understand
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): i've done that so i don't believe that there won't be any harm done. just make sure you ex knows and agrees that it's only a booty thing! if either of you two hopes something will happen afterwards then don't do it. at the same time...why would you waste you time with an ex instead of finding a new chick?
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