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People have problems that they can't talk to anybody about and I know thats not a good feeling. But people don,t care if there talking to complete strangers because nobody knows them. I'm one of those strangers, here to help anybody.

I am 17 years old but I am more mature than most people think. I've been through my share of hard times. My mom got pregnant when she was 16 so she married my real dad. I was born and about a year and a half after that they got divorced and we moved in with my grandparents. Then my mom got pregnant again, this is where my little sister comes in but she never married her dad. Infact my sister doesn't even know her dad because he has been in and out of jail for drugs and has no contact with her.

So my mom has two kids and is 19 but gets married again to a man who has and older son the two twin girls. My grandparents moved fron Tx to IL then 8 months later we follwed. When I was 6 my older step brother made preform oral sex on him and after that I moved back in with my grandparents. By this time my mom was pregnant again after going through a miscarrage. Finally my little brother was born and when he was about a year old guess what?... My mom got another divorce.

Back in to grandmas and grampas she went this time with one more kid. She got hooked on internet dating so we went through countless meetings with online boyfriends until she found "the one" and got married again but this time I stayed with grandma and grandpa. My moms new husband got a job in Canada so off she went with my sister and brother for 2 years.

Surprisingly she had an affair with a guy who was still married. Here comes the best part. On May 2nd 2002 my grandpa passed away...the only real dad I ever had and now he was gone. a year or 2 went by and my mom was finally married again.

To this day she is still with this man which is a record for her. She has never really been a mom she just plays mom when she doesn't like something then she does this whole "I'm your mother if i don't like it you wont do it or wear it or have it or listen to it" when my grandma has raised me.

While this is all going on I got pulled out of puplic school, at 3rd grade and got put into a christain school. Then from there to another christain school, then from that to homeschooling, and finally my 8th grade year I was back in public school. So pretty much I had to grow up pretty fast and take take of grandma who suffers from collapsed disks in her back and a bad knee.

I have a relationship with my real dad and I see him twice a year but it's not even like hes my dad... to me hes like a stranger. Now thats over lets get to the good part.

I live in IL where I have a pretty good relationship of a year and a half. I love all kinds of music and I enjoy drawing and writing poetry. I have some of the most amazing friends. I am a strong believer in God. I hope to be a drafter when I get older.

Is no strings attached sex with an ex a good or bad idea?

Q.   For once, a quick one by me. Is no strings attached sex, with an ex girlfriend (from long long ago) a good or a bad idea? I mean, there is a history that is all behind us now, and she is my ex for a reason, but it's 5 years on, and we're diffe...

A.   16 July 2008: Well it depends on the girl. If i was emotionally attached to guy still after 5 years and we slept together it would give me hope that he wanted to get back together. So first talk to her and see if you can tell if she still has feelings for you or ... (read in full...)

I lashed out at my son...how can I apologize?

Q.   I'm really upset and don't know what to do, i just came home from work to find that my seven year old son had left his bikes outside after repeadedly telling him to bring them in when he is finished riding, and one of them ( mongoose) was stolen ...

A.   16 July 2008: My mom does this all the time with my little brother who is 10. Just wait until the morning wake him up and explain to him that you have told him over and over to pick up his bike and when he doesn't do it is disappoints you. But then show him your ... (read in full...)

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