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writes:I have a male teacher,lets just call him Mr. Y.I was in class today,and I was wearing shorts and a v-neck and he came up to me and said "Hi Leila,how are you?". I just said"Um,fine.".Then he told me that we were doing a test soon and gave me a pencil,but he touched my hand. Then he bumped into me and I dropped my pencil. My friend told me while I was picking it up that he was staring at my butt. After school,I went to tennis practice for our schools team. The tennis uniforms are shorts that are a little bit shorter and tank tops with our school's mascot on it.The uniforms also show a little bit of cleavage. Mr. Y walked next to the benches(where I was tying my shoes with my friend Brooke) and he started checking me out. And yesterday I was wearing a skirt and he told me it looked good. Is he a serious perv?(and I already reported him.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2011): He's not a perv for simply noticing your attractiveness, but he is if he's acting on it. It sounds like he lacks self control. There are plenty of other attractive women out there he could be talking to, so there's no excuse for his behavior towards you. You were right to report him, and don't ever be alone with him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 December 2011):
 Not sure what you are looking for -since you already reported him.
Trust your gut.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 December 2011):
 Never dismiss an "oogy" feeling when you get one. He shouldn't be checking you out and making comments about your appearance. Like the other aunts have said, be guarded about how you carry yourself around him, and keep a mental note of everything "pervy" he does or said.
Let your parents know how you feel and tell them what's going on. Is it possible that you're overreacting? Maybe, but better safe than sorry. At the least, he might have forgotten his manners and your reporting him will give him a good reality check on boundaries.
Stay safe, okay? Do NOT let yourself be alone with him. At all.
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (16 December 2011):
 I don't think any male teacher should be making comments on a female student's appearance or on what she is wearing UNLESS he is politely giving her a suggest on modesty. Your teacher was not do this so his little encouragement/complement on your skirt was inappropriate.
Guard yourself. Make sure you aren't in any compromising positions that would make your feel uncomfortable. Be a good student and do your work but make sure your block out anything negative and scandalous that can alter your path to success. High school counts in the world of college, so make sure you are making the grades to get into your school of choice. Lastly if anything happens that is ILLEGAL (i.e harassment) then seek the proper authorities.
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