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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Maybe it's just me but, sometimes I wonder if my professor is flirting...I am taking a photography class for fun at my local community college. At first I didn't think much about it, but some things started to stick out.First, he often looks and keeps eye contact with me when lecturing. This is of course normal, but he REALLY seems to keep it.But this is when I really started to wonder. We had a project where we all met at a garden. I noticed that he kept coming to me to give me advice, meanwhile ignoring the other people I had grouped up with. 5 mins later, he is back giving me advice. He then complimented my skin tone, said it would look nice against the flowers, but directed the comment to me... Not to my partner who would he the one taking photos!Maybe it's in my head. It is more funny than bothersome, but I am just curious! What do you think?
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (24 March 2018):
 He's your teacher.
Don't even bother pursuing it until you're no longer in his class.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 March 2018):
 Can be that this teacher is a flirt overall but not with an ENTIRE class - a girl here and there.
My advice? Ignore it. Be polite and if he crosses any boundaries you are not OK with - tell him.
Also, if this guy is married (or have a partner) this is drama and not great for your grades or for learning what you want to learn.
I say nip it in the bud if he singles you out too much. Unless you are like the most INCOMPETENT student in the class he needs to not single you out. You are there to learn a skill that he is teaching, not flirt with him.
(why do I say YOU have to nip it in the bud? Because even IF he is the "adult" ones there HE isn't doing the nipping is he?)
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