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writes:hi cupid, just have to thank you for helping me everytime on this site, but just had a little thought, is my man with the right girl meaning ME, if he cant fully commit to me, i am on about being together as a proper couple with our kids we have from different partners, cause we are LDR, he his fully committed in that way, and we see each other best we can, and we are true and loyal and honest to each other, he has told me he loves me to bits and i have no worries of him ever leaving me, but its the full on commitment, been with him nearly 2 years now and would like this distance thing to come to a end some point, but i ask myself cause he cant fully commit to me, does this mean there is a girl out there that if he met her he would want to be with her full time, (i hope not cause i want to be his girl for life ) any answers please. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2011): Just tell him you want to close the distance gap in your relationship, and work out how you could compromise in doing this.
However if he refuses to do this them im afraid to say it but yes he has a commitment issue and in that case I wouldnt waste time trying to convince him otherwise.
I would just move on, because people at this age with commitment issues will never change, and you have a right to a fully committed relationship, this is what you want so you are no longer happy with the situation, unless you both can come to a compromise regarding this distance.
Hope this works out for you.x
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 May 2011):
 if you are LDR and over 25 and established in this world as an adult and he's not making a move to close the distance gap then perhaps he's not the right one for you
ONE of the things LDRs need to survive is an END date of when it will no longer be LDR....
if you push for he and he backs off then maybe he's not that committed to you.
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