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writes:I've never really had a proper relationship and am really inexperienced with guys I haven't even had my first kiss. I've been on quite a few dates with different guys but it's never gone further. The worrying thing is they have all said they weren't after anything serious and maybe just a bit of no strings attached harmless fun. I've turned them down cus I didn't feel it was right. Why do they keep saying this though have I just met the wrong sort of guys or is it me ? Also one guy said as I was quite inexperienced he wouldn't want to get involved. Is my inexperience going to put guys off ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): Don't worry about it, at your age its good to be able to say your inexperienced. Not a fault
These lads are just trying it on, don't give them another thought. If they thought anything of you at all they would love the fact your innocent.
You will know when your ready and when the lad is the right one.Don't be pressured into doing anything you don't want to, stay as you are.
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reader, Roboaxe  +, writes (14 August 2011):
 No it won't.
I actually had my first kiss at 19.
Do it when it feels right to you, not to someone else.
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reader, mthm616 +, writes (14 August 2011):
Don't worry about the inexperience! At your age, you don't need to have experience. If these guys are judging you on that fact, honestly, they aren't worth it.
When you are truly ready, you will find a guy who will feel privileged to be your first kiss. Make sure he's worthy of that.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (14 August 2011):
 Sweetie, you're fifteen at the oldest. Don't feel rushed.
Guys your age aren't looking for anything serious and you turning them down because it doesn't feel right is completely fine.
Really, as someone not much older than you at all I'd rather be in your shoes than my own.
Any guy who is put off by your lack of experience is stupid and doesn't deserve a moment of your time.
Sorry for such a generic response, but it's simple: it just hasn't happened yet. Hold your head up and don't let the horny idiots get you down.
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