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writes: I am really scared and confused. My husband and I just had our one yr ann. We have a very good sex life, sometimes we watch porn. The past few months he has made more and more comments regarding other mens penises. He also has a lot of naked men from gay porn sites saved on his computer. He also has our pictures and a mix of just porn. I recently went on a trip with him and while we where away we went out and had some drinks went back to the hotel . During sex he started talking about how he wanted me to watch him go down on another guy and just have a threesome with him and another guy. I have suspected that he may have done this in the past . I have asked him and he's told me no and that it's just talk to make sex hot , but I'm starting to be concerned that I'm going to end up a brokeback wife. Help I really need someone to talk to more about this . When I try to talk to him and ask more questions he tells me that we should not talk about it because it will just start a big fight..
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 If he considers hot sex by describing gay fantasies he may be bi, regardless if he admits it to himself or not.
Watch a gay porn movie with him and see if he gets hot!
The fact that he gets angry when you try to talk about this, means that he is on the defensive.
Most men have threesome fantasies, two men with a woman but usually it to see the woman go down on one man not man on man! Think about it!
Sorry but you need to have this conversation and be prepared for everyting.
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reader, fuse +, writes (17 December 2006):
Until he gives you a straight answer and you are truly concern use protection during intercourse with him. more than likely he will become upset but you need to also consider your health if he is doing something behind your back. God Bless You and your hubby
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reader, willywombat +, writes (17 December 2006):
 You really need to talk to him about your concerns. Maybe he is bisexual, maybe he is gay....but you cannot find this out from posting a question on here about it. The real answer can only come from him. Also, maybe this is just a fantasy he has. A lot of women fantasise about sex with another woman and this is viewd as relatively 'normal'.
Talk to hubby about your concerns before this drives a wedge between you both that is irrepairable.
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