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writes:My husband and i been married for a little over 2 months... this past weekend i stayed home and he went to south carolina for some game thing.... we started fighting saturday bout little things... well we made up sunday when he got home... i decided to snoop of coarse when you do that your gunna find it, i saw that he was texting a girl he use to sleep around with.... it didnt say much.... but i found it... i brushed it off and moved on... and put it in the back of my head... today i decided i was gunna give my mom a call since shes far a way and see what she was up to and picked up his phone and opened his text message that he has on his phone... and read a part of it and said its from the girl he slept with in the past... i just briefly read it and handed it to him and he read it and set it down on the desk knowing i was going to use it.... so he picks it up and hands it to me... i call my mom talk to her a bit and i wanted to know what it said.... so i read it and it said "i have blocked out thoughts of you so i dont lose my head" "howd that comment and pic make you feel the other day." i dont want to be dumb and think oh hes not cheating he would never, i know better.... he said he wouldnt ever do such a thing, and i believed him and trusted him.. but then thought about how long his longest relationship was and that was only 6 months it lasted... i know i should confront him, but lately ive just been really unhappy and just want to leave and move back to texas and live the life i had before i decided to get married... am i overreacting? dont get me wrong i love my husband, but we have no kids, we are just married... and the one thing being in a relationship let alone a marriage is trust... and if he is recieving dirty pictures or pictures and or even talking to other girls he use to sleep with... im not gunna stay.... but i dont know if im overreacting and being skiddish...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 March 2010):
Confront him. There might be a totally innocent explanation. But I doubt it.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (16 March 2010):
 to be honest you dont really know the facts of whats going on maybe you should sit down with your husband and let him know that you have seen these texts and wondered what they were all about as you understand there from a girl he once used to sleep with that way your just asking out of curiousity rather than jumping the gun and accusing him.you need to tell him if you are going to get on in this relationship youd prefer him to be honest as you dont want trust issues later on in this relationship.if i was you id be abit wary of the situation it seems a little fishy to me like he might be up to something but without any proof you have to trust him until you find out 100%
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