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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years and most things are good but since she got a new computer game I've felt ignored.After a case of mistaken identity on another site I got chatting to a woman and we've got on really well. Nothing overtly sexual but plenty of undertone and she has suggested we meet up and that she has spare tickets to a gig a long way from where I live.Finding the whole thing amusing and being open with my partner I jokingly mentioned the conversation and surprisingly she has said that I really should go to the gig with her and just to make sure there are two hotel rooms booked.I know I can say no if something did happen but feeling ignored I dont fully trust my morals and also dont want the akwardness between me and my new friend of having turned her down.Should I go? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Sounds like a test to me! Or maybe she feels guilty for being addicted to the computer and giving you a chance to leave the relationship, so if you cheat she can dump you and feel just while your left heartbroken.
Why can't you suggest going to a gig together? it give her a chance to get of that game! If I was you, I properly take the game and hide it, and pretend that's its lost or I threw it away. Speak to her about it, say how stupid it is that a GAME is ruining your relatonship!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Sorry, cant work out how to follow up properly.
She doesnt say that I am allowed to go but that I would be mad not to go (it is a band that I like and I havent been to a gig for some time but she isnt into live music) but that she is happy that I hadnt said to the other lass that I would be going.
When I mentioned about the invitation it was simply for conversation and wasnt expecting anything like this.
We have spoken previously about her addiction to the game that is resulting in my feeling ignored and generally it hasnt helped at all. She stopped playing for a while but was then getting bored in the evenings when I was doing my company stuff so went back on for "2 nights a week" but it is back to 24/7 outside of when she is at work.
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