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Is my girlfriend and mate seeing one another behind my back?

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Question - (10 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2007)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hi,

i was dating a a girl last year for a few months and she lived up in the lake district and myself in Manchester.

i went up for a weekend to see her so we could have time together, anyway wen it came to the sunday night and me going home bk to Manchester i did then on the Monday i met up with my m8 Ian bk home and we were out and about wen we decided to go up and see Kat my gf. wen we went up he met her, she met him n so on, however he caused a little rupt between me and her and she walked off so i jus walked off 2,

Then after a while he followed her and dey were sat in the waiting room at the train station while i was talking to my m8 syd. and then a few minutes i seen them walking off together and they were gone for a good half hr or so and everywhere i looked i cudn't find them. then they turned up and went and sat on the bench at the front of the station and i noticed dem and i got annoyed.

Katherine seen me and i stormed off and she come running after me, claiming she didn't like him and stuff, and he was a freak, however wen i got the train bk she had been talking to my mum saying she h8es him and doesn't like him one bit then i finds out she had added him on msn and had sent her an email saying he added her.

but he had tried to put his arm around her and she told me she didn't want him 2 coz he was my m8 and she loved me.

and when i confronted him about it he said nothing happened what so ever.

but katherine added him to msn even thought she claimed she didn't like him one bit and that he was freaky. now if you don't like someone then you wouldn't add them on msn would you if you thought they were freaky?

Cheers.

Vaughn

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2007):

Just ditch them both, you sound like you deserve better. They are so stupid to go off together for half an hour at the bus stop when you were around. They obviously have no intelligence what so ever. Tell them that, and ditch them both.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007):

think to be honest, that if you had just had an argument, one mate was with u, if i were another guy i couldnt just leave things and let her go. as a mate i wud go after her and try and help sort things out. which is prob whats happening on msn. if i were u id just keep an eye on it and not let it get to me.

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A female reader, MissyP United States +, writes (10 February 2007):

MissyP agony auntHey

that does sound alittle weird seeing it that they went out with eachother and now are talking still...

As being a girl..i would say shes lying..the msn thing isnt that big of a deal...its msn if they were hanging out that would be a problem..i would say wait it out alittle and see what happens...talk to your buddy about what he thinks about her.

If shes doing this to u and playing games with ur head its time to find someone else

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