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writes: I'm married for 5 months. I've got relationship before marriage and my husband knows about it. I want to start my new life and I love my husband, but he keeps talking about the other guy. He makes love to me only once a week and says that it is only to satisfy me. Whenever I kiss him he becomes stiff and asks me to stop b'coz he feels suffocated.I dont know what to do. I am in deep depression. Plz help me
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 Ask him what can you do to reassure your faithfulness to him. Be gentle. He's hurting because he feels doubt whether you truly love him and whether or not you are still thinking about this other guy. And if you told him about this past relationship yourself, well you walked into the problem you created. Honestly is a desirable trait, but you don't have to share everything! My goodness! Remember he has feelings and insecurities too. Men are not the bold stone faced guys they'd like to portray themselves to be. Underneath they are cuddly and lovey-dovey too. Let him know every day, two times a day, how much you love and appreciate him. Let him know you think about your futures down the road together and see happiness. Reassurance, reassurance, reassurance.
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