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I want my lover to be part of my and my baby's lives... but we haven't actually met.

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Question - (25 May 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2005)
A , *exasgirl writes:

I am in a lesbian relationship but I had got pregnant before I met her. We were friends for 5 months before we started dating. Now things are going really good. We're planning to live together after the baby is born. She is going to be a part of the baby's life.

The problem is that she lives in California and I live in Texas. We never met. I really do love her and she loves me. Is it too soon for us to make this commitment? Do you think it is too soon for me to give her a part of my life? Would it be better if I met her before I include her in the life of my unborn son, or should I let love take its course?

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A reader, alison +, writes (28 May 2005):

You should definitely meet her before letting her live with you and your son because she might not be who you think she is. if you feel the same after meeting her then why not as long as you are sure she will treat you and your son with respect and won't take advantage of you.

good luckxx

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