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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:im 18/f and hes 19/m :) ok so long story short, i really like my bestfriend. I've never met anyone more like me in my life and we both thinks its the most amazing thing. Im so lucky to have found him and im really falling for him. Anyway, two weeks ago i was nervous and hopeless about a future together with him, thinking that he couldnt possibly have the same feelings for me as i did him. Anyway, i got an unexpected phone call from a mutual friend of ours telling me that i dont need to worry and to stop stressing. i asked her why and she told me not to say anything, but that my best friend likes me alot and thinks im insanely beautiful. Hes came out of a horrible break up after 5 years 6 months ago, and says he wants to be a single for a little bit longer. But he does like me alot and wants to be with me when hes not so terrified of relationships. he also told her that if i ended up dating anyone else that he would be extremely upset and know that it 'wasnt meant to be'. but to be honest i dont want anyone else but him, and im willing to wait till hes ready. Again i have to pretend i dont know any of this, as he told her that he wants to tell me personally, but she knew how upset i was going and had to. so anyway that was a couple of weeks ago that i found out about that, and since then we havent been able to see each other due to his band being on tour. It wasnt till yesterday i started doubting his feelings for me again, as he didnt really text me or anything much, but when he did he would say some really sweet things. anyway yesterday he texted me (coming as a complete surprise cause he barely texts me ahhah) and told me "listen to invincible by tonight alive. then text me back, i will say no more" so i listened to the song and immeadiatly began to cry. the lyrics are as follows: i love you in the light, i love you in the darkand my mind has been made upbecause you threw the spark, that set my heart on fire now the stars are falling from the sky, there on fire and fallingstraight into your eyes, your eyes.i am invincible, as long as i love you i am invincible, theres nothing we cannot do. missing you everyday- its not enough for me.we make it so hard for ourselves so easily and its funny the one same thing that makes me crazyis the same thing that keeps me sanemy minds a million miles awaybut nothing ever changes, no never change. cause i am invincible, as long as i love you i am in invincible, theres nothing we cannot doyour arms are my home,and ive been homesick for oh so longso bring me back homeback where i, back where i belongcause i am invincible, i am invincible i am invincible, as long as i love you i am invincible, theres nothing we cannot doi am invinciblei am invincible as long as im in loveim in love with you I then texted him back saying how i thought the song was amazing! and i was speechless. he then responded with "i thought you'd like it :) it came on in the car just then and im chillin in the back seat and thought of you :)" do you think the song meant anything in regards to his feelings for me? is he trying to tell me something? etc etc any advice appreciated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): i think you are one lucky girl! He is worth the wait so wait for him til he is ready. It is not worth going out kissing random frogs and losing out on him. Give him another few months and then make your move! I think he could have subtly been telling you through the friend that he wasnt ready yet. So dont force it, just let it take its course naturally!
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