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female
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36-40,
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writes:I'm not sure whether to meet up with my friend and this guy she is friends with . She has been friends with him for a while, and she said he really wants to meet me, and she said he is a nice guy, and he is 32. I'm 26. I know my friend isnt interested in him as she has a boyfriend. The thing is, if she was trying to set me up with him, would she want to come along when i meet him ?. We're supposed to be going to the cinema to watch a film, but i want to suggest that we have something to eat or drink first soemwhere, before we watch the film, as it will give me and that guy , and my friend, a chance to talk. I feel a bit funny about going to the cinema with a guy that i dont know anything about, as you cant talk during the film, and its a dark room. I'm even nervous about who is going to sit where while the film is on !. I wish i could ask her if this is a set up.I'm also going for a night out drinking with my friend soon. I'm not sure if her male friend likes drinking as i've only ever heard her mention that he goes to the cinema. He doesnt have a facebook page either, so i cant see what he is like by reading info on him on there, or seeing photos. It seems to me like he might be a quiet person.What do you think ?.
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reader, romany +, writes (10 July 2010):
 I think you are getting yourself, into an unneccessary pickle, She is your friend, tell her your worries, it could just be that she wants her friends to meet, but i'm sure, once you've explained your anxiety's, she'll realise what a big deal this is to you, and could admit that it is her way of trying to play cupid.
It really is no big deal hun, stop over analysing this and have faith in your friend, i'm sure the last thing she wants to do is make you feel uncomfortable. So by bringing this up with her, will help her arrange a pleasant evening for all.
Good luck.
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Just ask her. What harm can it do?
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