A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend and we went for classes together and became great friends.She told me she was dating a guy named D and loves him but turns out that she was never dating him.Once I asked her if she found me more attractive than him, she said she found me more attractive.Here are some examples:She used to look at me for sometime if I was doing something or looking somewhere else and say "you're so beautiful".She used to put my hair locks behind my hair, like caressing.She used to say something in my ear but touch me with her lips more than saying it!She used to ask me if i was gay. She used to talk to me for hours and tell me, "you don't know how much I need you." She made me listen to a love song which "reminded her of me"But she really likes a celebrity musician who is a male. That is the only crush I know of hers because she tells everyone!She has never dated anyone.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (18 March 2013):
It sounds like you're asking if she's gay because you're interested in her. It can be awkward to talk about such things, especially in high school. I think it's safe to say she's "confused" at the least. Talk with her about it and remind her that she can trust you with anything she says (hopefully that's true).
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 March 2013):
 And it matters to you if she's gay because why?
Are you gay? do you want to date her?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2013): Maybe.
Then again.. I caress my friends' hair. I have a need to touch stuff, and my female friends have SOFT hair. I can't help but touching it. And I' not gay.
Also she can just be awkwardly nice. I have said things to friends that came out way too romantic, when it was not what I meant.
If she does turn out to be gay, support her (it's your friend, no matter what) and, if she shows romantic interest in you, just straight things out (no pun intended!) - if you like her romantically, tell her, if you prefer to be friends, tell her too :)
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