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anonymous
writes:Hi is this man worth giving another chance? I miscarried beginning of february i was gutted the next day my boyfriend started arguing with me then 4 days later he split up with me i really loved him but he hurt me so much what should i do any opinions welcome thank you
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 March 2013):
 other than he split up with you after your miscarriage I'm not getting enough information to determine why you are asking the question.
has he asked to come back?
what's his explanation for his bad behavior when you lost the baby?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 March 2013):
 There's nothing like misfortune to bring out the best (or WORST!) in a person....
You write: "...the next day my boyfriend started arguing with me then 4 days later he split up with me...."
WHAT does that "tell" you about this guy? I'm reading about a guy who's just fine (with you and him) as long as all is going his way.... but who CRUMBLES when the chips are down...
Drop him... and find a REAL MAN for a boyfriend....
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2013): We were living together the relationship was really good before the miscarriage we were planning on getting engaged he started a argument the day after over something pointless he split up with me cos i got a taxi home and didnt ask him to pick me up as he was arguing with me about dropping me off earlier in the day
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (27 March 2013):
 You havent given much information for us to base an opinion on - ideally we'd need to know how long you have been together, do you live together, was the relationship good before the miscarriage, why were you arguing after the miscarriage, what was the argument about, does he want you back now, has he apologised for the arguments....etc.
However if all we have to go from is that your boyfriend picked a fight with you the day after you miscarried....well he sounds like a jerk who doesnt seem to care about you, so no I dont think you should take him back. He should have been looking after you following the miscarriage, not starting arguments.
However it is very hard to give you a decent answer because there is so little information in this question.
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