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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys , my ex broke up with me about a month ago due to still having feelings for his ex of 7 years ...we have remained great mates, I still really like him and he wants to be with me but can't be 100 percent for me cos of those feelings .. The other day when we were chilling he told me he wants me but he's attached .. Since the break up we have spoken every night and sometimes during the day via internet .. When he broke up he told me he didn't wanna do it and he's really sorry for jumping into it so early .. It broke my heart .. I really like him , he is the most amazing guy i know ,its so hard to let go because we both want to be together but he still has some feelings for her .when we hang out it's amazing we get along so well , even after everything that has happened .. The thing that confuses me about it all is the fact that when we hang out we kiss, cuddle and occasionally have sex ..thing is these days it feels different to how it was when we were together . I feel so much closer to him , he is much more cuddly and loves to snuggle up to me on the couch which was something that didn't feel this special when we were dating , it feels like there is really something there , not just what we had .. He keeps telling me he's going to cook me up a storm and that when my bro gets the job we are going to annoy him and stuff .. Surely if he didn't wanna be with me he wouldnt go to the hassle of this ?.. I stayed at his last weekend and he had to drop into work for 1 hour early in the morning He asked me to go with him .. It's strange cos where he works is where I used to work soeveryone knew who I was ..y would he want me to go with him so early in the morning ?? He also talks about te future and shows me what his plans are .. What's he thinking .. Is he still keen or am I loosing my head ?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 September 2011):
 Yes am sure he is still keen and that he still likes you very much, you have been special to him and am sure he feels that. But his heart belongs to someone else and if she was to get back with him am sure he would jump at the chance. Not because there is anything wrong with you but plainly because she was his girlfriend for a very long time and his feelings still run deep. If I were you I would distance myself from him for a while and give him some space to think things through. It will also give you a chance to breath and accept that you are both over for now. Distance will be hard yes but in the end it might give him a chance to miss you and realise that he does want to be with you.
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