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Is my ex boyfriend trying to make me jealous about his new girlfriend?

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Question - (21 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

a guy who i am really close friends with, and we both like each other as more than friends has a new gf

and im really starting think that he wants me to be jealous of him and his new gf as he seems to be rubbing it in my face, so could u tell me what u think? because its really upsetting me as i really like him...

this is our msn messenger convo...

Pete says:

to be fair the girl im sorta seeing is pretty to me but like others wouldnt say she is a stunner i dont think, but she is better to be around than loads of others girls ive known

Jadie says:

oh so shes like average looking then?

whats her personality like?

Pete says:

yeah maybe a little better than average, but she is so nice and caring and always with a smile n her face, funny as well

Pete says (23:58):

really good kisser as well lol

Pete says (00:03):

i was holding her hand as we was walking home, then i put both my hands on the side of her face, brushed her hair away and gave her a soft kiss on the lips

Jadie says (00:05):

aww that sounds nice and romantic

Pete says (00:05):

would u like that

Jadie says (00:06):

ummm yup i defo would

Pete says (00:06):

think it might get serious thinking about it

Jadie says (00:07):

oh thats good to hear, im happy for you

Pete says (00:07):

really, u not jealous no more

Jadie says (00:07):

no why would i be? ur a friend im glad ur happy

Pete says (00:08):

thanks babe

its just with him saying 'would u like that' about the kiss, and 'u not jealous no more' makes me think hes trying to make me jealous as like me and him used to have a thing for each other, so i was wondering if that could be why? so tell me what u think???

thanks xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011):

My ex boyfriend and I are still in touch. We always have playful conversations and love pulling each other's legs.Lately he has been talking to my cousin sister via Facebook. He finds her as an interesting person. During one of our recent chats, he started talking about her to me. And he said that I am jealous despite me denieing it. Finally he said that he is not interested of having her as a lover and told me not to worry about that. He just wanted to be friends with her. He kept hinting about my jealous streak. They are now frequently chatting on fb, almost daily. I feel insecure about this whole saga. And I dont get it, why is he making me jealous?. Pls help me...:'(..I still love him loads though...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008):

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yes me and him do like each other still,he even told me that he would want a relationship with me if me and him lived closer

i have told him that i like him

and he has told me he likes me

he said this to me the other day before he was with his new gf...

Pete says (18:45):

starting to like u alot babe

Pete says (18:46):

wish we was closer

Summer- ~i kissed a girl and i liked it~ says (18:46):

how come?

Pete says (18:47):

so then we could go out and see if anything happens

Pete says (18:48):

would u like that

Summer- ~i kissed a girl and i liked it~ says (18:48):

yeah i would hun

Pete says (18:48):

me too babe

Pete says (18:48):

would give u everything u wanted and more

Summer- ~i kissed a girl and i liked it~ says (18:54):

i do really like you tho

Pete says (18:55):

i really like u too babe

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (21 August 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntI'm just wondering why if you two supposedly like each other so much, then why he decided to go with another girl instead of you? Did you ever tell him about your feelings or was it all just assumed?

I need answer for that because it might change or not my answer to this:

He's so proud and happy on getting a very pretty girlfriend that he just wants to share the experience. I know those things he asked you sound like he's trying to make you jealous, but it seems to me that he's just wondering your opinion about what he has done if it's good(him kissing the girl like that) and if you're ok with his relationship with her (when he asked you if you were jealous).

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