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writes: The culture that i have grown up in to has made me think irrationally rather than realistically. People in my society constantly dream of something that will happen to rescue their life and solve all their miseries. Is this right to think? On the other hand, there are some ppl who think that no matter what happens, there is no way out of their suffering. Is this just optimistic or pessimistic thinking or is it more than that? Also, the males in my family are kind of super salesmen. They believe in cajoling and luring the other person to start believing them until their purpose is solved. Once it is done, they behave indifferent to the person as if he/she doesn't matter to them anymore. Also, if a person is no good to their purpose, they don't give them any importance and consider them as a liability. I am sick of some of these treatment i have been getting from them. My father says, it is all normal and thats the way world works. Is this all just normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): Paft of the world works on he principle that there is a sucker born every minute, and you have the right to take advantage of them. There is no respect, and no love. They take what they want and move on. Avoid them. The rest of us try to respect others, begin to know people and offer them our trust until they prove they don't deserve it, and then take the chance on love. Yes, we get hurt, because there are always pigs around like the men you describe. It is your choice. There is something very special, and very reassuring and calming about having the love of a woman who cares deeply for you, and trusts you, and depends on you, not only for her support( or part of it), but for the emotional commitment she needs from you. Giving that support is the easiest thing to do. Find that and you will be happy.
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