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writes: Ok, i have a question, i'd make it as quick as possible. I'm single, n i've been single for almost 5 yrs. i know, i dun believe it either. The thing is, I tend to have high standards on guys. Well there are guys who like me, it isn't that I have problems in aesthetic level or anything. The weird thing, I'm a romanticist, I could easily fall in love when i'm showered with love and personal attention. So let me get to the point. There's this guy i knew whom I think he liked me (emphasis: past tense) couz i've been observing signs frm him. it's pretty early since i jus got to know him, and i kinda felt the same way too about him. Then he asked me out once, n that point of time i couldnt make it cuz i have to study for a midterm the next day. So hopefully tats not the cause he stopped goin for me cus I realized tat he isnt into me anymore, for some reason i dun know tat's y hopefully i could get an answer here. And recently, my friends are like, setting a boundary b/w us. and we're in the same social circle, pretty much. his sister is in my social circle. So I was wondering, why does he stop liking me? His signs are fading away, and I thought we had a connection. So is he judging me like the rest of my friends? (in the first place I didnt even do anything wrong to my friends, they ditched me for some reason) It's like as if ther's a rumor goin on that everyone thinks im a disease n set themselves some distance away from me. Alright tats about it. Thank you so much if anyone could think of an answer to this. =)-Confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, Scalesy8 Knows it all +, writes (23 November 2005):
I say you should confront the boy ask him out if he says no it's not the end of the world because you don't need a guy to make you feel special. Oh and about your friends talk to them ask them what has happened i'm sur it will all work out fine in the end. from Scalesy8
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): Call the guy and ask him out. He may just think you were not interested in dating him at all, and had mistaken the signals he thought he was getting from you. If he is like many guys, he asked friends of yours in that circle you spoke about, whether you like him or not, and they may not have understood why you didn't accept his invitation for a date. Clear the air directly with him, and stop using friends to filter information for you. It is always a disaster to use friends for this information, as anyone who has played " Telephone " at a party knows. The information is always screwed up by the time you get it. Talk to him directly. If you didn't make it clear why you couldn't accept the date, apologize to him and tell him why you turned him down. Then the two of you can start again, and find out if there is any attraction.
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