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anonymous
writes:m in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,so its not easy to spend so much time with my bf.when i told this to my bf,he said that he will come to attend my uncle's son wedding!bt my uncle doesn't know him and he's not invited.he says he will come secretly and nobody will recognise him in such a crowd.i don't know what to say to my bf.if i will say no its risky he will feel bad.what to do?moreover i will be reaching on dec 2 and will checkin in hotel around 9pm so it will be difficult to meet my bf on that day.but my bf said that he will stand near the gate just to have a glimpse of me!one good friend of mine also lives there.so i have to meet him too.when i told this to my bf he said why u told him?and when i told my bf that i will play badminton with everyone,he said honey it will be a time waste.we can utilise that time to sit somewhere alone and talk.whatever he is saying is it ok for a bf to say so?or is he really crazy to meet me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): you are entitled to a life in addition to your ldr boy friend.
So do all the things you've planned
He doesn't own you.
It might be a bit selfish of him, because it sounds like he wants 100% of the time.
That's not love, it's smothering.
If he is not invited to the wedding it's very crass bad manners of him to want to gate crash the wedding. Disrespectful, and potentially embarassing to you and
your family.
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reader, srp_x  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 I dont think hes crazy and you should admire the fact he wants to look at you because it means he misses you and wants to see more of you! If you love him and he loves you then make the time to see him. Maybe you do need to push some things out the way to see him but then again he needs to understand you cant push everything out the way. Sit down with him and plan out when you can see eachother and let him know gently that you cant always see him but the times you do see him you love it and enjoy it.
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