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anonymous
writes:My bf and i have been together for 3 months and half. My bf saw i chat of me and a guy on facebook and he started acting weird saying im enjoying myself, im not thinking of him and i couldn't even send him sms. I was shock cuz it was the first time he has done this. Is this irritation or jealousy? Is he jealous cuz of my chat with a guy or he's angry with me cuz i couldn't send him sms?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): Most likely both, angry that you can send other guys messages and not him but also jealous. If you were not flirting with this guy then your bf has no right to act that way but if you are of the opinion oh i say x to my guy mates cause its just a joke not flirting then you are in the wrong, the amount of times women and men think it's ok to flirt with there supposed opposite sex mates is incredible. Your bf knows only too well that most men are simply on the prowl it is an unfortunate fact. But like I said if you were not flirting then just say he is a mate and if he ever says anything bad you will stop speaking to him - simples
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (20 June 2012):
 I think this is leading to jealousy in a more extreme way. You shouldn't have a problem when it comes to guy friends of yours and if it is going to be such a big deal where your bf acts all hurt then it might be best to drop the relationship before the real jealousy comes out. I am assuming that the chat wasn't overly flirty or anything because then that does change things a bit.
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