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writes:I don't understand my boyfriend of one year. What's going on?!My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, it's been great...until recently.We've been living together for six months, we have a great sex life, do a lot of activities together, and have date nights each week.My boyfriend took a trip to visit his father half way across the U.S. When he left, he was very sad to leave and said how much he'd miss me, seemed normal.The trip was supposed to be for two weeks, and he was driving back.He's been really weird while there, not many phone calls, strange text messages. He's just been bizarre. He still tells me how much he loves me, how he wants to be with me, he misses me... but yet he's not driving back? Every day he tells me he's leaving and he'll be on his way...and then he has some excuse. Really bizarre lies. His cars in the shop, his grandma died, yada yada... I'm SO confused!I don't believe he's cheating on me, but I think his actions are suspicious... like maybe he's doing something illegal? I'm lost.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 July 2010):
 stop worrying ikno its hard.... but STOP worry will kill you... secondly stop responding... when he text you just say see you when you get back..., stop bugging him about when hes getting back... realize your just a gf not a wife you really dont have any say over what he does... he has no obligation to you.. not trying to be mean... just saying you might want to prepare your self for the fact he may be cheating.. i suggest doing some investigation... find out if his grandma really died and it better not have been ten yrs ago.. when he gets back.. see if you can find the receipts from the mechanic he took the car too... its time for you to be a spy he does sounds suspicious but hes probably snoopng through a panty drawer not state secrets
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (22 July 2010):
 It really does sound like he's cheating on you. Sorry hunny. That might be the sad truth. Its more likely then him being on some spy mission.
however, he could be telling the truth and has some really bad luck, with his car crapping out, death in the family, etc.
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