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writes:Hey, I was just wondering about this. If a boy asked me out, and I said yes, it's just how...do you be a girlfriend? I mean what do you do? just hang out with him as much as you can? Sit with him at lunch? What do you do? I mean i'm only 14. I just never planned as to what i'd do if i was ever asked out which i think MIGHT happen soon. Thanks for any advice :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Yo mon  +, writes (4 October 2008):
Well you can only be yourself and take it in your stride. Afterall he has asked you out for the person you are. The only difference is that you will start a more physically relationship; hugs, kisses.
As for meeting up, i recommend balancing time out with him with time with your friends as you don't want your friends feeling like you've dropped them for a boyfriend. So depending on how much you saw/hung out with him before, continue that and meet up at weekend after meeting friends or in spare time and after school.
But, as long as you dont think about it too much and remember "bros before hoes" you'll be fine.
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reader, jstar92 +, writes (4 October 2008):
 I suppose if a guy asks you out, then he'll probably start things off, maybe ask you to meet him and such, just start off by giving him hugs, hold his hand, be nice and smiley towards him. Everyones different when it comes to being a girlfriend. Over time being a girlfriend will just come to you, people find their own individual style. But yes, sitting with him and hanging with him after school are good things to do too.
Don't worry about it anymore, when it happens, being a girlfriend will come to you, there's no point worrying about it until it happens.
xox
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