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writes:Is it wrong to have a relationship with the same sex? I have this relationship... I know it's against everybody's eyes but I can't afford to lose her. I really love her.. She also loves me, I guess.. but she is afraid to show-up because many people will get mad at her. So we decided to keep it a secret... We are now on our 8th month.. Please tell us what to do... Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 January 2008):
 There is no right or wrong.The only thing right is to love everyone.Some religions or cultures forbade such practice. It depends on where you are and what religion you practice.Even among the religious , there are those who go against their religions.People should not judge others.You do what you feel is right and not what others tell you.As long as your conscience does not trouble you and you feel at peace with it , by all means enjoy your friendship and happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007):
Yes, It is wrong...
As a human being we should love everybody, but same sex realtionships go against every religous rule in the book. I am not a homophobe but I do not agree with the lifestyle. Sex between a man and woman is natural. Same sex relationships are not normal. My sister has been experimenting with a woman, and I love her still and do not treat her any differently but I am very disappointed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): You shouldnt be interested in the outsider's opinions. There is nothing wrong with dating someone the same sex, i cant stand homophobes. There is nothing to be ashamed of, and if you love her then you shouldnt feel like it is wrong. Family and friends should support you and stand by you and be proud. People who do get mad, then still you should keep your head held high.
:) Take care xxxx
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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 You shouldnt be interested in the outsider's opinions. There is nothing wrong with dating someone the same sex, i cant stand homophobes. There is nothing to be ashamed of, and if you love her then you shouldnt feel like it is wrong. Family and friends should support you and stand by you and be proud. People who do get mad, then still you should keep your head held high.
:) Take care xxxx
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (16 August 2007):
 I'm not sure whether you'll appreciate advice from someone a lot younger, but I'm going to give it anyway, as I feel strongly about this sort of thing.I guess people who are a lot younger, 16-18 are generally more excepting of homosexual relationships than older people, due to general attitudes towards them.If you love each other, you should be able to overcome people's negative responses together, as a couple. If someone is "mad" at your partner for it, then they are narrow minded. People need to except others without judging them. True friends and family should generally be supportive, but they may not. There's lots of websites that explain how to go about "coming out" to people.Lastly, of course it's not wrong. Love can come in any shape or form. I hope it lasts for you. Best wishes, Laura x
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