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writes:Is it wrong to get naughty with strangers over Chat Roulette?My boyfriend has been gone for a few weeks overseas, and I have been very bored and lonely. I would never cheat on my partner, but lately I have been masturbating with men on Chat Roulette. I like the anonymity of it and it makes me feel sexy. Is this wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): My view....
It is wrong if you have a boyfriend, but other than that if your face is covered it shouldn't be a problem.
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reader, MsSadie  +, writes (7 April 2013):
 All tea, all shade: that's really creepy.Generally, the guys who masturbate on online are sick ^^^rds who don't care who is watching them masturbate, be it women, other men, OR children. And as CMMP said, there's also the danger of you being secretly recorded.If none of that matters to you, then I still suggest that you tell your boyfriend. He ought to know that you have an exhibitionist streak. Maybe it'll give you two new things to try in the bedroom, and in the meantime maybe he'd like to enjoy Skype sex with you while he's away.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (7 April 2013):
I hope you realize that guys routinely record that stuff and post it for all to see.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (7 April 2013):
 Okay. If you don't think this is wrong, then you should have no problem telling your boyfriend that you're doing it right?
Would you be alright if he told you he was "anonymously" masturbating over the internet with strange women because you were away for a few weeks and you're "bored" and "lonely"?
When I'm "bored" and "lonely" I call my boyfriend or go out with my kids or some girlfriends.
You said that you wouldn't cheat on him, do you two not consider this cheating? Would you consider it cheating if he were doing it?
No judgement here. Just stating some facts and asking some questions.
Good luck. Let us know how it goes or what conclusion you come to.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (7 April 2013):
 Anonymity? Good heavens, girl, you're masturbating with various men, they're seeing you on Skype or video cam. How can that POSSIBLY be "anonymous"?!
Your boyfriend is away for a few weeks, and you say you're doing this because you are bored and lonely, and you'd "never cheat on him" - you ARE in actuality cheating -the only difference is that you are not in physical contact with these men.
Now do you have to ask us if what you are doing is wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): Just talking to strange men you don't know on the internet is dangerous let alone exposing yourself to them. I'm sure your boyfriend would be really hurt knowing you did this. You have no idea how dangerous exposing yourself to strangers over the internet can be. Believe me, there are a lot of weird and creepy men out there. I would steer clear of Chat Roulette all together. It's not a good site to be on in my opinion. Nothing wrong with wanting to be social, but masturbating on webcam, exposing yourself, sending naked pictures, sexting, cybering, all of that stuff is really dangerous and you should not be doing it. Stay safe and take care.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 April 2013):
 Is it wrong? If you have to ask STRANGERS this, you know it IS wrong.
But if you still aren't sure, how about asking your BF how he feels?
How would you feel if he was wanking off to random chick (and/or dudes) on the Internet because he was bored & lonely?
My husband was deployed several times for 9+ months and I CERTAINLY didn't get so bored with my life that I had to go twiddly my ladybits on chat roulette with random creepy people.
Honey, you need to grow up.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (7 April 2013):
How would you feel if your boyfriend was doing the same thing? Would you think it was wrong? That would be your answer.
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