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writes: I would very much to strangle my boyfriend, is that legal? lol jkjk Seriously, I sorta want some revenge. We've been dating for five months and its his birthday tommorow, his friends always try and get him clubbing so I joke , "I'm probably not seeing you tommorow uh?" and his answer was a very serious, "We'll see. I was supposed to go boating but hm, it depends on the weather. Yeah, we'll see." So what am I? Plan B? Chopped liver? I said nothing, he lends me his Kindle, drives me home, and blows me a kiss while my brain goes, "Throw the kindle at his head...you have good aim, no?" Ok, maybe I'm overreacting. I'm new to the dating thing so guys, is it bad of me to get upset over the fact that I probably will not be a part of his birthday plans? Is it bad of me to make plans to enjoy myself thouroughly with some crazy friends for the entire day tommorow? Please, do tell :p Oh and if it matters, I'm twenty and he's thirty-four.
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reader, missdimples3 +, writes (24 July 2010):
I love your sense of humor and sure as hell love how you look at a situation... keep it up girl. you rock!
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reader, followtheblackrabbit +, writes (24 July 2010):
followtheblackrabbit is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for the insight! You guys are right, it is his birthday and whatever the reason, he'd like to be with his buddies. Sooo, I'm hitting a male strip club (SO kidding!) hehe I'm going to a concert with no hard feelings and genuingly hope he has a great time :p
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reader, missdimples3 +, writes (24 July 2010):
I dated a 34 when I was 19! the age thing matters a lot... and you are not over reacting at all cuz to me it sounds like what I had with my ex.. he always wants his space he always wants to hangout with his friends.. etc. one day I just got sick n tired of it. I hope its not the same in your case but to me it seems like he doesn't want you in his birth day plan. or I could be wrong n he might be feeling a bit old n he don't want you there lol. or maybe he is going to text you n ask you if you want to go with him.. they are weird like that! and you're very funny for wanting to hit him with his kindle lmao! anyways... If he doesn't call or text askin u to go with. Sweetie live tomorrow up do hangout with your crazy friends n have as much fun as you want :)! xx
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