| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I very recently found out that my boyfriend has cheated on me, not from him, but a reliable source. He doesn't know i know, but i am seriously considering ending the relationship over this and a few other things. My problem is i have previously cheated on him once before, but he never found out. Is it wrong of me to break up with him for doing exactly what i did?
View related questions:
cheated on me Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006): Obviously this relationship has bigger problems than you are willing to admit. Neither of you would have cheated if you were truly committed to one another. I suggest it's time to call it quits and move on.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006): If both of you have cheated on each other, it seems best to end the relationship, because neither one of you is happy with the other. On the other hand, if you regret cheating on him and would not do it again and wish to continue your relationship, then maybe you can call his attention to your knowledge of his infidelity, but offer him some sort of forgiveness. In that case, though, I believe honesty is the best path to take: it would be best if you also told him about your infidelity. Either way, you need to talk to your partner and see if you really want to continue a relationship.
...............................
|
