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writes:I'm in a LDR and it's wonderful. We are extremely happy. I'm going down there in 3 days to visit him. I'm really excited! We've come to realize we want to have sex when i get down there. I'm not sure if it's right. I know i really want to, but a bit ago i cheated on him. He's forgiven me and what not, and i'm very thankful for that! We haven't really hung out in a while or been together for the longest time, but I just want to know if us having sex is wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): It is most certainly wrong. Ask Yourself this. Are You going down there to see a person You like? Or are You going down to use some one for sex.? It seems to me to be the latter. You cheated on this Guy before. What's that all about. Using some one else for sex. I know what I would do . Dump Your ass!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): "Im not sure if its right" says you are not one hundred percent sure. Sex is both a physical and mental act. Youre ready physically before mentally and since you have doubt in ur mind youre ready you should therefore wait until the right moment and you will always know when that feeling hits. Best wishes.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Its not wrong no, unless you dont feel ready and you arent comfortable doing it, only you know how you feel, so if you are not ready then tell him that.
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