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writes:Ummm well my sister has this friend Ray. And I really like him. Majorly. Everything he does is completely awesome. But he is probably the least liked guy at my school, simply because of the way he dresses. He doesn't really care about that and neither do I, but I'm worried he thinks I'm like all the others and I hate him too, which I don't! He's really chatty with most people though, except me. I don't know why! He's always really nice, but for some reason we're always a bit awkward round each other... which is lame.The main problem is that my sister is going to university in about 2 months, and he'll never come round. He's staying at our school because he's my age instead of hers. I hate school and want to go to college. Although if I did stay, I'd be able to get to know him properly, which is all I want. So really, the choices are A) Go to college, have fun, but completely cut myself off from him, or B) Stay at my rubbish school but get to see him everyday :DThe perfect choice would be C) - Get to know him properly before I leave for college so I can keep seeing him. But I have no oppurtunities! :(I can't just stop liking him. He's so perfect... one in a million. What do you think I should do?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was just re-reading some of my old questions (it's quite interesting for me to see what was playing on my mind at different stages in my life!) and I stumbled across this. Anyway, it turns out my sister was madly in love with the same guy! So obviously I couldn't get her to talk to him about it then... Sod's law, huh?! Oh well, meanwhile I've moved on... just about ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2007): Thanks for all the advice! I really appreciate it. I will try to get to know him before college... though it's gonna be hard... ah well. I like a challenge :S I'm not sure whether to talk to my sister or not though. She might be a bit weird about it because he's one of her best friends. I'll have to see how it goes... :P
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Talk to him - tell him that you like him. If you are going to another school soon what have you got to loose? he might really like you to - which could be why you are both awkward around one another. Love is worth the risk isnt it?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Definitely don't change your plans for your life to get to know some guy. I know you think he's perfect but this is about your future - sort that out before you think about guys. Go to college and do what you wana do there, you'll only regret it in the end if you don't, and resent him for it too.
It sounds like he probably has some feelings for you too, that's why he's weird in front of you. I think you need to make option C happen: make the first move, get to know him then see where it goes from there. Don't even think about not going to a good school just for him, he might not even be that great once you get to know him!
I know it seems like the world revolves around this guy right now but you need to focus: this is a really important time in your life and you need to make some big decisions that will shape your future. You're always gonna like a certain guy but you love yourself more and want to do the best for you. If you get to know him and he's nice, great, but don't let the chance of a life time go just to do that.
Get up there and make it happen, you'll always regret it if you don't! Good luck
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reader, rambini +, writes (28 May 2007):
 i think u shud make an effort to talk to him, maybe even tlk 2 ur sister as she may be able to help. however i do not think u shud stay at ur school as u will b cuttin off ur own opportunities on a whim. go to college but try 2 get to know this guy before hand. maybe he is awkward around u bcoz he likes u 2 and this can often make a guy shy!
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reader, DV1  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 I think that you should get to know him now. You don't have to see him every day to be in a relationship with each other. A little space is good, plus you won't be giving a chance for success if things don't work out.
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