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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy we met on facebook and started texting a lot... He keeps making plans but then he cancels some times he is cocky but then other times he is nice. Yesterday I told him to stop texting me and he said ok. but I missed him so much I texted him before I slept. He said he was really hurt, however he is more open now and we have deeper conversations but I still feel like its going no where and yet I can't seem to end it.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 March 2016):
 He is playing you. And YOU are playing right into his hands.
He isn't trying to find some deeper connection with you, he is using you as a "cure for boredom", my guess is you aren't the only girl he chats with.
It's going nowhere.
And I think you know it.
You missed the fantasy of him. The real person you really don't know. People can be VERY charming over chats, it's a whole other ballgame when it comes to IN person contact.
If you really want to end it, BLOCK and delete his number and BLOCK him from your Facebook.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (18 March 2016):
 You are a chump. It's a game to him and you are the mouse to his cat. The fact that he keeps making plans and cancelling must tell you he has other things to do. You are at the bottom of the list of priorities. Don't be needy. Things will happen when they are supposed to. You can't turn this into a viable relationship.
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reader, miss frank +, writes (18 March 2016):
Hi. So you haven't met at all? How do you know each other? Does he live near by? Is a future even realistic?
When we are emotionally involved we have a physically dependency, hormonally. These days of easy access to social media and texts and phones is ensuring thus dependency now days doesn't even require physical presence or contact! That's why you are missing him...you've come to need that hit.
You need to decide if you want a real relationship and what's stopping him from seeing you. Have a frank conversation and give him a chance, but if nothing changes and I suspect it wont, go find yourself a real man
Good luck!
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