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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:About 6 weeks ago I met this lovely guy from Tinder who is also 23. On the first date we didn't kiss but he immediately suggested meeting again. On the 2nd date he also didn't kiss but again, he immediately suggested meeting again. On the 3rd date we had a great time, and we did kiss finally!! As I thought it went so great I suggested the 4th one as he didn't, and that one went even better and we were both sober. Over the last week he's been taking about 10 hours to reply to my message (used to take him maximum 2 hours) but yet he still seems friendly in his messages. He asked on Wednesday what I have planned for this weekend which I felt was quite early to ask. I said i have nothing on and he also doesn't but he didn't suggest meeting up!!! Is he hinting for me to suggest another? Or is he just being friendly? Is he not interested? I'm not interested in this dragging as its now been 2 weeks since we last met. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 March 2016):
 If he is not writing to you first, and taking a long time to reply then this could mean that his interest has slipped. You could suggest a fourth date and then leave it up to him to confirm.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 March 2016):
 3 dates are what i gave anyone... the 3rd date could seem great to the other person but I knew I didn't have "those feelings" and didn't push to have a 4th date.
seems to me that if you have not heard from him in two weeks since the 3rd date, that he's not that into you and it's time to let it go.
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