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writes: Hey, I really need help... I'm dying!I've been working with a guy since Christmas (7 months now) and we became good mates. I liked him then and let him know... but he already had a girlfriend. he was cool about it and we stayed great friends. We spoke to each other when we saw each other but never text each other.He has now split up with his girlfriend and texts me a lot. We've been out loads as mates since the split and he acts differently around me. He always wants to come out now and askes me what I'm doing tonight constantly; when before he wouldn't dream of coming out. He does act differently with me ... like he put his arm round me the other day while my little 12 year old brother was with us. He thought I was upset and said in a sort of babyish voice "aww r u upset?". He texts me saying silly things like when I was tidying my room he texted me saying "you can come and tidy my room if u like!;) xXx " I can't describe how else he is different with me but it just seems like he wants to know me and be with me more. But the other day we were supposed to go out and about 5 minutes before we were due to meet up he text me saying "hey I cant come out tonight, soz xXx"It's probably wishful thinking but I really want someone else's opinion who doesn't know either me or him! I'm dying because I've really liked him for ages and it's killing me not knowing how he feels! I'm not sure if he thinks I like him anymore either!Please help!! Oh... I'd also like to know... is there anything behind giving 3 kisses at the end of every text message? is there like a code with how many kisses you put? because I always put "xxx" at the end of a message whether it's my best mate or my boss! My mate said the other day when she was reading my messages "why do you put 3 kisses when you text your boss??!!" Am I just stupid not knowing there is a code??
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006): Take it easy girl, you have got the hots for this guy big time! He knows it too! So slow down and play it cool...he let you down last minute for your date ,so be very wary of him you don't want to get hurt. Play hard to get and let him do the chasing if he REALLY likes you. As for the kisses I'm not sure, but xxx in my code means I LOVE YOU. Chill out girl and best of luck.
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