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writes:Is it wierd to be so excited about being seen having sex? I m now to bored to do it in private. Also, are there laws against it in a parked car on your own property?? Reply to this Question
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reader, staci +, writes (27 July 2007):
staci is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your replies. am giving an update after finally being caught. not by the law--worse--mom! went swimming in parents pool this week at night thinking they would stay in the house or i would here or see them. forgot the garage entrance and didnt lock it. so those of u who said getting caught was embarrassing were right.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 March 2007):
 Hi,
It's not weird to be excited about doing it in public. It IS exciting! Maybe getting caught... the rush of things... it's very exciting. However, Martini does touch on an excellent point. If you ARE caught, you can getting arrested for public indecency.
I know plenty of people who have had sex in semi-public places and they've had tons of fun doing it. I know I have! However, you do need to be really, really careful, be smart about it and try not to get caught.
When you say that you're "too bored" to do it in private, that worries me. Perhaps Dagwood is right in saying that maybe you're not having sex with the right person. If you plan on having sex in public everytime you do it... well, odds are eventually you'll get caught. It makes me sad that you're bored by privacy... when you're in private, you can be intimate with each other, take your time and it's just the two of you. Think about that.
Try doing it with the windows open in the privacy of your own home!
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): No, it not weird to want to be caught having sex by people. You like the fact that it sounds dangerous and exhilerating. Seeing as you are bored with the sex that you are having it seems quite normal to want to try something new. Just make sure that before you plan to have non-private sex that there isn't any CCTV cameras lurking around or that you don't get caught by the police.
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (5 March 2007):
 If you're bored having sex in private then you're probably doing it with the wrong person! You probably have some sexual fantasies, as we all do, but there is a big difference about fantasizing and carrying them out. Personally I've also had these kind of thoughts but have never carried them out expect by having sex in the woods etc. but never openly in front of other people. Is it normal, who knows? If it worries you and makes you feel guilty then I guess you should not do it. If you can't resist then rather try doing it in a more private place (woods, roof tops, lifts etc.) but not the bedroom where you normally do it. But getting caught can be quite embarrassing, especially if it's by the police! Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): Sorry, and I meant to say after that, you can try going to sex clubs, or possibly have public sex anyway - eg: at a nude beach, or out in the woods where there are camp sites nearby - you know, add a bit of spice to the places you wish to do it. Yes, there are laws against that, but that doesn't stop the bulk of the horny boys and girls everywhere having sex in parked cars, up the alley behind the club, on an open field under the stars, in a wooded park after a bout of scaring her silly and horny, and just finger her under the table while at a restaurant... 8]
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): Yes, there are laws in Canada and in the United States against things like that. It has to do with public display of indecency and you can be charged with a fine, short jail term, possibly psychological therapy, and/or civil labors for X amount of days.
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