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Is it weird that I've never had sex?

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Question - (6 January 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2014)
A male South Africa age 26-29, *cott thoba writes:

i'm 18 years old,a vergin and i like to mastibate...always when my friends talk about sex i feel lonely knowing that i never had sex,i just want to knw is it normal?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2014):

Being a virgin at 18 is pretty normal. You have a few more years before you should start worrying. Make it to 28 with no interest from women; then come talk to me. Hard to feel much like a human after that long when women look at you as non-sexually as they do a toaster.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2014):

mate, i didnt kiss anyone until i was 18. youre fine! or maybe im just weird.... hmmm nah. i didnt have sex until i was 18 either, and ALOT of my friends are like that as well, its completely fine. dont be in a rush man, itll happen

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2014):

No, not weird at all. It can feel weird to hear people talk about sex all the time and have no frame of reference but it doesn't make you weird.

I didn't have sex for the first time until I was 20. I know people who were older and still not have had it. There is no such thing as "normal" when it comes to sex and relationships so there's no such thing as "weird", it's all subjective. Personally I find it more weird when I hear people had sex when they were 13/14.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2014):

Totally normal, and I would even say it's a good thing.

I didn't have sex till I was 21 and I have NO regrets about waiting.

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