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writes:hey so this is kinda embarassing but here goes i an 16 and never had a boyfriend or a proper kiss. i wouldnt say i am pretty or thin could this be the reason ? all my friends have had boyfriends and it makes me feel bad because i feel so stupid it kinda gets me down am i weerd ?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 No, you're not weird and you shouldn't worry about it. If you are worried about getting yourself a boyfriend then there is a high risk that you will settle for someone that isn't right for you. It'll happen when it happens. Before I was 18 I hardly even spoke to a girl who wasn't related to me or a near neighbour but it didn't even occur to me that it was an issue because I was too busy with all the other stuff that you should be busy with when you're 16.
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reader, Zoe2194 +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Hey, dont put yourself down. im sure you're very pretty. this is not strange atall. Im 15 and i had my first kiss when i was 14 but i regret the person i kissed because as we got into a relationship i was physically abused and now have to live with the scars. relationships arent all their hyped up to be. its better to be single and not to have someone to dedicate your life to as you're so young. i have left having a boyfriend for the future! you should too!
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (29 July 2009):
Why do you feel weird there is nothing wrong with not having a bf in high school your friends are just a little farther along then you. I promise you once you get out of school and find your own confidence you will find a bf some of us take longer than others and there is nothing wrong with taking your time and finding that special person. If I were you I would work on what I am insecure about and after you do that then you will attract and find someone its all up to you and you only.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): I think you're perfectly normal, not weird! I didn't have a boyfriend or kiss till I was nearly 18 and I'm think and a lot of people say pretty too. These aren't the most important factors in dating! Just because you haven't met someone who you're attracted to and who is also attracted to you, doesn't mean you should let it get you down :)
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reader, yourdesire26 +, writes (29 July 2009):
 Trust me, it is not wierd that you have not had a boyfriend yet. I bet all your other friends relationships won't last that long. Don't get discouraged because you don't think you look pretty or because your not thin either. I have the same problem but I never get down about it. I have had 2 boyfriends since i was 16 im only 17 now but those relationships didn't work out. They loved me for who i was not for what i looked like. Your time will come and when it does they will love you for who you are. Some people just date at a younger age than you. but eventually you will date I'm pretty sure someone has there eye on you but you just don't know it. Hope I helped!
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