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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm quite young but old enough for sex. At firzt I liked having sex with my boyfriend but since it started hurting I don't like to have sex anymore and haven't for a few months. Is this weird?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (10 October 2012):
 Do you like stubbing your toe? Do you like getting poked by needles? Of course not. So if sex hurts, why would you want to do it?
Are you VERY turned on before you have sex or do you just kind of go for it? You should aim to be close to orgasm before you even start, that way you know you are turned on enough.
If that doesn't help see a doctor to rule out any health problems.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 October 2012):
 No, not weird at all. If you hurt your head smacking it into a brick wall, wouldn't you rather STOP doing it?
Have you been to see your GYN? Gotten a check up lately?
And what exactly is it that hurts when you have sex?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 October 2012):
 It's not weird that you don't enjoy sex when it hurts. However it is weird that it hurts.
Have you gone to your doctor about this? Sex is not supposed to hurt.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 October 2012):
 NO it's not weird... you have pain when you have sex no wonder you don't want sex...
now let's address the issue...
what hurts? penetration? fingering?
are you stimulated enough? lubricated enough (either your own natural lubrication or use of an over the counter product)
have you had a medical work up to determine that nothing is wrong?
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