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writes:Is it true that absence makes the heart grow fonder? And does a guy that youve spent so much time with, day in day out, reminice about all the moments and memories you two shared together; even if it were for just 4 months. Is it true that you could fall in love with someone after 4 months? And if a guy does think about all the memories they have, could that be that he is in love with you? How do you know if he is thinking about all those moments together? Is there a way to find out, without asking him? Please help me out here Reply to this Question
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reader, CupidGirl826 +, writes (9 September 2009):
Hey, I can't answer all the questions, but the ones I can, I'll try.---Is it true that you could fall in love with someone after 4 months?Yes, it all depends how much time you spend together and if there was chemistry. The last guy I was seeing, we spent like every minute together, everyday, so within a couple of weeks we fell really hard for each other - EVEN in the beginning there was something there, the chemistry was just...just there.---Is it true that absence makes the heart grow fonder?Yes, but it depends how long. For instance, normally during a break up the first month or 4-6 weeks, I really long to be back with the guy. I miss him, think about him, etc. But after time passes, they fade. They'll always be there, but you just move on...
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reader, SloBurn +, writes (9 September 2009):
 Absence in and of itself does not, the fond memories of time spent together however, do. This is usually associated with feelings of nostalga. 4 months is plenty of time to fall in love if all the ingredients are there. I'm about your age and have been involved with a woman for 4 months and can say I honestly do love her, but I've known her for much longer. "How do you know if he is thinking about all those moments together? Is there a way to find out". You'll never know exactly what another person is thinking, even if you ask. As humans, we tend to temper our responses to ?'s with reasoning and a bit of pride.....so the answer is no.
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