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writes: I've got a friend who I became unusually close to a couple of years ago. We begun talking intimately on an almost 24/7 basis. I started to get quite intense feelings for her and had a sense that she might of felt the same - although neither of us ever admitted it, we often spoke of something we 'both wanted to tell eachother.' Somewhere along the line the feelings began to fizzle out and we've barely spoken since, but recently I’ve found myself liking her again. Do you think she liked me in the first place, and if so, is it too late to bring it up now? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 October 2012):
Yep, if she's seeing someone don't tell her. Chalk that up as a missed opportunity. But if she's available, then just ask her out on a date! If she says yes, great - and if she says no, then you're pretty much back to where you started.
It's never too late. Just ask her out and see what happens! You don't want to miss an opportunity again!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 October 2012):
Is she seeing someone? If she is, then NO don't tell her. If she is not - invite her over for dinner and a movie. And just tell her. She MIGHT not feel the same way but if she does it's a win, if she doesn't, well then you know.
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