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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I got mad at my girlfriend and she broke up with me after a year of dating she said she didnt think i trusted her and told me she couldnt take me back so soon and that she needed space. she let me see her after a week and said she still loved me and we spent the night together but said she needed time and space i kept begging her to take me back and eventually she got mad and said to move on but told my friends that there is still a chance and told me the same thing but she still needs her space. i dont know if its too late will she still consider taking me back or is it too late because i didnt give her the space until now?
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reader, Kassi (Nova) +, writes (11 February 2010):
I don't think it's too late. Love doesn't just flick off like a switch, if it's real.
Give her some time. At least a week. Then call her and let her know in a short message that you are sorry for not giving her what she asked for, and that you'll wait for her to come to you (that way she knows you still want her).
But don't wait forever. If it has been a really long time, and she hasn't called you (and I mean more than a month) and you're ready to move on and see someone else, don't stop yourself waiting. She was the one who made the break.
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reader, Griffo +, writes (11 February 2010):
Just keep giving her space untill she calls you. Leave the ball in her court for a while. Go enjoy doing something else with your mates, it will help to pass the time.
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