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writes: I am an older person and should know this but I want to get it verified. I have been seeing this man on and off for 20 years and just back together afte being separated for over 5 years. Everything was going ok until a couple of weeks ago. He has not been with me the last 2 week-ends and also stopped calling so I sent him a letter stating we should not see each other anymore. I have my suspicions that he is seeing someone again. Yesterday, I received an e-mail from him stating he had been hosptalized and that if I didn't believe him, I had a serious problem. But yet he never called to let me know this. I told him if you care about someone and is your friend, would'nt you let that person know you were hosptialized. I don't believe him and told him so. Do you think he is telling the truch or just another one of his famous lies? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 March 2009):
Obviously he's lied to you in the past or you wouldn't have the thoughts of it being one of his "famous lies".
If he can e-mail you about being hospitalized he could have called. Anyone would have made sure to let friends & loved ones know they are in the hospital. It's not like phones are banned from hospitals. Unless he was comatose he could/should have called, text ed or e-mailed you.
Move on.
I believe your first instinct is correct. Go with your gut!
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