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Is it the 11 year old that loves him? Or me at 16?

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Question - (12 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have sent this problem before but i didnt get any responses, so i decided to try again, because i still need advice :)

When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i always loved him in the way that children do.

Anyway, I moved away when I was 12, and didn't talk to him until recently when we got back in contact. I think that I now actually like him quite a lot and I don't know if he likes me. Also, I don't know how much of me likes him now, and how much its the 11 year old me still grasping onto the past.

That probably made no sense, but any advice or anything would be appreciated.

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A female reader, MuffinGirl Netherlands +, writes (12 January 2009):

MuffinGirl agony auntHow did you get in contact with him again? Where dID you talk? Add him on facebook or msn and then you'll see what will happen.

You didn't tell us in what kind of relationship are you two now. I understand you, why you love him, but you should be careful because people changes during puberty. So i think you should try to know him better and get in contact with him. You'll see if he is the same nice person or it's just sweet memory.

Good luck!

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