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writes:Hey Everyone,I just wanted to know if what I'm feeling is completely crazy. So a little while ago I met this guys online and we exchanged skypes and we've been video chatting on there everyday for 3 to 4 hours at a time. Is it strange that I'm really falling for this guy? He lives in new york and I live in california and he bought tickets to come out here in june. Is this whole thing completely insane? I've never felt like this about anyone and I truly want to be with him. Can anyone speak from a personal experience? What should I expect when we actually meet? Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (4 March 2011):
I would be careful, but good luck
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reader, JDinCali +, writes (2 March 2011):
 It's good that he bought tickets to come see you. I would hope his intentions would be honorable; as in, just visiting to see if you two are compatible in person. Beware that you might be loving the his potential. If he pressures you to have sex, then you know it's a online fling.
You have to sit back and look at the logistics. This guy is from N.Y. and you're from C.A. that's a lot of distance, so if you two are going to be serious, well, one is going to have to move to the other.
Are you going to ditch your family or is he? Who gets to visit family during Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving? Are you prepared to miss-out on friend's birthdays and other special occasions over this guy?
Be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): its normal for you to find someone online, and them seem so perfect for you its almost to good to be true, you might feel that its insane, because growing up, having love over the internet is slightly frowned upon, when it shouldnt be, its a good thing. i had an internet flick last summer, what youre having might be more than a flick, and i think what youre having might be the start of good things, hes coming to see you, right? thats great, (common sense, be careful ;)good luck
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (2 March 2011):
 I don't think it's crazy at all!!. I say go for it. You obviously feel this is right and so do I. My friend's boyfriend lives about 3-4 hours drive away and they get on really well (Together for just over a year and still going strong).
I hope this helps =)
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