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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:So I been dating a guy for 4 months. We're not technically a couple, but he's the only guy I'm seeing and want to be with. I maybe see him one time a week or so, I've never been to his house, but I talk to him many times a day. At first, I thought maybe it was that he had another woman, but that's totally not the vibe I get now. It's more of like he's hiding something from me, not a woman though. We finally had our first real talk after months of this B.S... He's known for a while how I've felt about him, but this is the first time he has opened up to me. He says that he just wants to take it slow because he has some emotional issue to take care of before he can jump into another relationship. He says that he is attracted to me mentally and phsycally and he REALLY cares. He asked me just to be patient and that all good things are worth waiting for. I know I do tend to rush things, so is this really me that has the issues? Should I stick by him and be patient? He says he can see himself with me, but how long is acceptable for me to wait for him? I usually drop men like nothing when I don't get what I see its a waste of time. I'm a young, beautiful, successful lady. I can have almost anyone - why do I feel so deeply for this man that I hardly know. Is it really true that all good things come to those who wait? Reply to this Question
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reader, kayli  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 hi there,
I think u should just be paitent with him.After all havent we all went through similar phases? he may be just having some trust issues and if this is correct u might just have to show him how u feel and reasure him.He says he cares for u and is attracked to you so he clearly wants something to come of it. Guys have a funny way in which they show their feelings compared to girls and it takes time from them to come out of their shell.soi would say the only thing that he is hiding from u is his feelings nothing else so u have nothing to worry about.
so yes i would say give him time he will then see how great u are and how much he wants to be with u ! x
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (4 March 2009):
 It's up to you, if you wait he really could be the one, or you could be impatient and jump into bed with the next guy that catches your eye.
Personally I'd wait if I liked him.
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