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writes:Me and my boyfriend of 11 months broke up because i had gotten bored with our relationship and felt like it was going no where. Im 17 and he is 19. I can see us together later on but just not right now. Do you guys think that we could successfully get back together in the future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Yes, anything is possible in the future. There is always the possibility that the two of you could find other dating partners, as well. But you know..there is no guaruntees. At your young ages, love is fickle as you have
proven, by stating that you were bored and felt it was going nowhere'. That's extremely the norm in your age group. And I feel you did theright thing by allowing you both to go out and experience a more diverse dating experience. But as stated before, breaking up is risky as that doesn't mean you will find each other again, in the future. It's a chance, but you should never fear doing that.It sounds like you both love each other, but one of you has drifted. By breaking up with him, you did the honest thing...you are giving each other an opportunity to explore other opportunities. Good luck to both of you.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Anything could happen.
If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, then you know it's yours.
It's good that you recognize that now isn't the time to be with him. It would be sad if you let your relationship and respect for each other die out because of wrong timing.
Keep an open mind, but don't worry about waiting around for him. Continue your life and see if he fits into it later.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Never say never. Anything is possible.
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