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writes:Okay this might sound wierd, but my bf and I have never had sex and I think I might be pregnant. It's not that I'm a virgin, 'cause I'm not, we are just staying away from sex until I turn 18, because he's 25 and it's illegal in ND to have sex with a minor. My birthday is next month so we don't have that much longer to wait. We also plan on getting married next month. Anyway my bf and I do fool around and there has been many times where he has lain behind me and put his genitalia between my legs and has gotten him self off just by playing on the outside of my "private area". When he cums he usually cums on my inner thigh, but there has been a few times where he has accidentally pulled back and gotten cum inside me, because he slips in a little every time he pulls back and comes back forward. Is it possible to get pregnant just from his cumming shallowly inside me a few times? I've missed my period for last month and am late by two days this month, and I've taken countless online pregnancy tests that say I have a 85% chance of being pregnant. I would have taken a pregnancy test by now if it wasn't for the fact that I live in a small town and everybody knows me and my bf. Is this possible or am I just over reacting? And can he get into trouble even though we've never actually had intercourse?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Oooh, baby... go get yourself a pregnancy test. Online pregnancy tests are bunk - unless you're peeing on something, you won't know for sure.
Everyone gave you great advice and I hope your boyfriend continues to be supportive and solid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Yeah, there is quite a chance that you could be pregnant. Order a pregnancy test online and nobody will have to know.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Hi, yes, you could be pregnant. Please watch this video for some education. When I first watched it, I learned things I never knew, and I thought I was pretty well educated with regard to contraception and how pregnancy occurs.
http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
If you need some help, I would suggest looking at www.plannedparenthood.org to find a clinic near you. There's a search tool there, pop in your zip code and it will help you locate the nearest available clinics. They can help you with getting an accurate pregnancy test.
I'm sorry you didn't have the information you needed about how pregnancy happens; but as you now know, it can happen when semen enters the vagina, no matter if there is penetration or not.
I'm sure this is very worrying for you, but I think it may be time to go to your family and let them know what has happened. I hope you have a good relationship with them and can manage this. It will be stressful but I think eventually the truth will come out, and it might be better if you managed the revelation to your family, rather than them finding out from someone else.
Good luck and be brave.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 November 2008):
Yes you are probably pregnant and yes this still counts as sex with a child in your state.
You should have used condoms or kept your trousers on.
You need to go to the doctor and get this confirmed.
Sorry.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): If his cum was in or around your vagina, then yes, you COULD be pregnant. Online pregnancy tests aren't going to tell you anything. You need to take an actual pregnancy test, either the blood test or the kind you pee on. If you live in a small town and everyone will know, drive to the next town over, or have your bf do it, and buy one there. This is about your health and if you are pregnant it will affect the rest of your life. Time to be a big girl, since you are acting like one by involving yourself sexually with an adult, and face up to the truth, whatever it is. Don't wait.
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