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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys, I hope you can help me, I really like this guy, we met through work, but always text and phone each other all day every day. I have told him how I feel about him and he has said he likes me too, we have had a couple of times outside of work but nothing has ever happened. I have asked him to go out with me a couple of times but he has said no, but still keeps texting and phoning and says we are more than work friends and gets annoyed if I say that's all I see us as , don't get me wrong I want it to be more. Can anyone tell me what they think is going on here, I want to stop contact with him but I can't because I love the contact that we do have and he's always the first person I go to tell stuff to first. Is it possible to get over him whilst still having contact with him 24\7?
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reader, Pooki__11  +, writes (29 January 2012):
I have been in a similar situation only with the roles reversed. I was seeing a guy for a little while and then I realised it wasnt right so I decided I would rather be his friend. He told me he loves me and refuses to be around me if he cant have me. I got upset because I felt that if he truly loved me he would want to be around me even if it wasnt in the capacity he initially wanted. He decided he would keep talking to me. Anyways long story short, he has gotten more and more short with me, I believe he has begun to resent me. We no longer click like we use to and even though we were talking very often things changed between us. It became confusing, such as 'should we still talk every single day', 'is he going to be as open with me as he used to be'. Fact is, it is not working for us now. We have lost our click, our bond. I just thought you should know how it happened for me. But as humans we must always discover things on our own, it is the only way we truly learn.
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